When you are looking for love, a girl for a relationship, you should always be careful. I would say use a sober mind. Especially when you use Dating Sites or Dating Apps to find a nice Ukrainian woman. 

Online dating is like a trash can where you have to dig around, go through a lot of rubbish, spend a lot of time and put in a lot of effort, if you are lucky you will find something beautiful and real. You agree with me? Write in comments

So… it seems to you that you are finally lucky and you have met a beautiful, smart, kind and interesting lady from Ukraine.  You had a first and then second date with her. You are looking forward to the next meeting with this girl.

Now it is important! How to understand/recognize a woman you like is really interested in you too or just using you? It is quite simple if you pay attention to some points, signals, in acquaintance with a Ukrainian girl. 

I’m going to highlight and describe the 6 most common red flags you should watch out for when dating a Ukrainian lady. You should understand as soon as possible that the girl is with you for her own personal gain or because she is interested in you as a man for a potential serious relationship. Then you can cut off any connection with this woman and continue your search for your Partner, or focus on developing your relationship with her. 

    She is always busy for you

Such a girl responds to your messages for a very long time or read your msg but doesn’t write back, she does not answer on your calls, it is difficult to arrange a meeting with her. She simply says that she is too busy, or she comes up with a thousand reasons not to communicate or see you. Yes, of course, there are such periods in life when we can be very busy or all the problems have piled up at once.

Then do not delete the contact of such a girl or block her, but do not wait for at least she will find an hour of her time to meet you. Just tell her that when she has more free time or more desire to get to know you, she can text or call you. And let go of this situation… keep searching for your future girlfriend. 

   She chooses the place for the date(s) herself and it must be some kind of fancy restaurant

Such girls always choose expensive trendy restaurants and order expensive champagne and dishes. This is how the first date goes, the second, and so on …

She rejects your offers to walk around the city and just drink coffee, or go to an exhibition in a gallery or have a nice dinner at your place. 

If this is in Ukraine, in a big city like Kyiv or Odessa, then probably such a lady can receive a percentage of the amount in the check from expensive restaurants.  Maybe she may not want to be seen by friends or acquaintances in your campaign.  Is she shy of you?!

How can you get know each other if you only meet in restaurants for lunch or dinner?!

    She comes on a first or second date with a friend or friends

You met a beautiful girl on a dating site, you met her and on your first date you invited her to have a dinner at a chic restaurant. Everything went great. She smiled at you a lot and flirted with you. You invite her on a second date. This lady immediately agrees and invites you to meet at a bar or a fancy club and says that she will come with a friend or friends. Or you invite her to meet again for dinner or drinks in a beautiful place and then she does not come alone. Isn’t that strange? Is she in such a hurry to introduce you to her best friend?!

As for me, this kind of girl is not interested in spending time alone with you, in romantic communication. Why can’t she and her friend have fun together when you pay for everything. And of course, the girl hopes that in the circle of other people you will not try to hug her or kiss her. 

It’s even weirder when a lady wants to come on a first date with you with her sister or girl-friend, under the pretext that she doesn’t know you and is afraid. She is an adult woman and you do not invite her to your home.

Do not agree to such meetings!

     She is constantly on the phone

When you are on a date with  pretty girl but she constantly checks her phone, answers someone, takes a selfie with herself, a photo with food and immediately uploads it to Instagram. Maybe for half an hour talking with her mom or a friend at the table with you.

That is, in front of her is a potential man for a romantic relationship and she is not interested in getting to know you, asking you about something, laughing with you together. 

Yes, it may be that mother or grandmother of this woman is not feeling well and she needs to be in touch, answer the call at any time, in which case she will definitely tell you about it.

It’s sad when the whole evening passed in silence or empty talk about stupid things because most of time she was checking her phones.  Or she’s often looking around or smiling to other men. She is only answer you like “yes or no or maybe” most of the time.

     She offers shopping

Most foreign men want to meet a very beautiful, much younger Ukrainian girl. Of course, the one that looks beautiful, she wears an elegant dress and high heels. But this does not mean that such a girl wants you! I mean for a long term relationship!

Therefore, do not be surprised if such a lady, after the first date, tells you that she wants a new dress or she needs new beautiful bag. Of course, she only wants expensive branded things.  Or says she wants the latest iPhone!

If you want to impress such a girl, then go ahead and buy whatever she wants and sit for hours in fitting rooms. But if you want a good and lasting relationship, then you should keep looking.  Might not look for someone who looks like a model and is 20 years younger than you.

You can come to your first date with Ukrainian woman with a beautiful bouquet of flowers . Perhaps, if before that you talked with her for a long time online and waited so long for a meeting, then buy and bring to her a good perfume.

   She always has something bad happen or there is some kind of problem

Even before the meeting, in communication, such a girl often or constantly complains about her life, her problems, etc. You experience a feeling of pity and a desire to help her, to solve her problem or problems. That sounds noble of you. But doesn’t it seem strange to you that a woman who you don’t know well is already telling you about her troubles and sorrows?! Of course, she is expecting that you, as a person unfamiliar to her,  help her?!

It is worth thinking about and perhaps trying to determine that her problems are really real or a hoax?!

The next thing you really wanted to find a woman for a relationship, when already at the very beginning is not that lightness, flirting, joy, but only sympathy, a feeling of pity?!

Believe me, as soon as you refuse to help her or are too busy with work or personal problems, she will stop writing to you.

I tried to highlight the most common red flags that you should pay attention to when meeting Ukrainian ladies. Many girls who are only looking for profit in communicating with foreign men are very beautiful, charming, self-confident and do the same tricks with many men. So be careful not to get caught and not be used!

If you have something to add write in the comments! Share your experience

Join to 50 000 successful men like You and follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or Telegram. Don’t forget to subscribe to my blog, not to miss out any of great and useful posts.